Monday, December 22, 2008

☻ Really Inlove oR Deeply INfatuAted?



As a college student, I've been encountering people who are in love and infatuated, but me? no I'm not (i did't experience it yet haha!). I'm not inlove but, I do have my crushes and inspirations of course, even you.I'm sure you do have your own crushes or maybe boyfriend/girlfriend, don't you? Well for me, there's nothing wrong if you enter into a relationship as long as you know your limitations and responsibilities, am I right?
But it is important that you know what you truly feels in that particular person, it is important that love is the reason behind and not that you're only infatuated with him/her. Now let me tell you the difference of the two
INFATUATION and LOVE :

♥♥♥♥♥♥ INFATUATION♥♥♥♥♥♥

☻infatuation is when your obsessed with someone but you can live without them
☻If you just met her it's probably infatuation. After you date for a few months people might call it love.

☻Infatuation is just the idea of the person being perfect for you.
☻Infatuation makes you feel like a foolish idiot, makes you care what other people think.
☻Infatuation is more like a deep admiration for a person like you admire what they do and who they are its not neccesarily a love for them you know its just an infatuation.

Infatuation is temporary
☻infatuation is an unrealistic or extravagant love or admiration appealing to the senses and impulses. infatuation maybe the initial attraction that will, with time and commitment, grow into a mature and unconditional love
☻Infatuation is just like a crush; possibly an attraction. It's kind of shallow - based mostly on looks and something new.
☻infatuation is the when you think someone is hot and you want to screw her. Literally, screw her and screw her over. they aren't worth your time afterwards.
infatuation is when u feel like u love her, but when u get angry or things go wrong, that feeling disappears


♥♥♥♥♥♥LOVE♥♥♥♥♥♥
love is a feeling you cant describe with someone you know you cant live without...its when you miss him/her the second he/she leaves ..and you smile just by thinking of him/her...when everything that used to go wrong suddenly goes right...when everything you do you want him/her to be there with you..and everything just feels RIGHT.
☻Love is a fondness that people create mentally between each other.
☻Love is from the heart, infatuation is the brain tricking you into thinking it's from the heart.
☻love is when u know u love her no matter what happens or what she does or says. love isn't just a feeling.
love takes time to know a person. real love is not just the sexual chemistry.. its having a friend and a lover at the same time.
love is devotion based on commitment and unselfish concern for one another. it freely accepts another in loyalty and seeks his or her good.
☻Love is when you really know someone very, very well.
☻If you know this girl/boy as a friend and as a lover maybe than your in love.
☻Love is honesty, trust, fidelity, compromise, communication, reliability, liking the person you're in love with, loving to spend time with that person, wanting to spend your life with that person.
☻love is when you truly care for a person. think of your mom, you don't want nothing or no one to hurt her, so you would go out of your way to help her, that's love.

Now as you have read the difference between the Two (LOVE and INFATUATION)
, ask your self are you really inlove with him/her or you are just deeply infatuated with him/her?